#26 Abandon the victim mentality
There is a mindset that prevents us from evolving. It's living life as a victim.
There is a mindset that prevents us from evolving. It's living life as a victim. Me too, I sometimes lament myself for injustice. Not living as a victim does not mean refusing or accepting suffering. On the contrary. But it does mean asking the question: What do I want to do now to be better? It can be a very small step that can be done at first only in the head. Yes, there are many things in life that we do not choose, but we can always choose what we do with what has happened to us. Without that, no development or improvement is possible. So the next time we feel like taking refuge in the status of victim, let's try to choose how we want to react and look for the resources that depend only on us that can help us to be more serene. It is this 40% leeway to be happier that we must seek.